❤️5 Reasons Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close ❤️ (2023)


5 reasons why men pull away after getting close is a dating advice video that will give you a better understanding of why men pull away after getting close. It is very disappointing and frustrating when you are having intimacy and closeness and then your man pulls away and he disappears or ghost you. This dating advice for women will help to bring you more clarity and peace of mind as to why men pull away after getting close.

After watching this dating advice video, you will get an honest answer to why guys pull away as well as get more clarity on ghosting. There are various reasons why men pull away and you have to be careful not to internalize these things. It is a frustrating and disappointing experience when a man goes ghost on you. However, sometimes when men pull away after getting close can be a blessing in disguise.

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But today, we're going to be talking about the five reasons why men pull away.

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Let's get right to it, five reasons why men pull away.

Reason number one, because he can't easily get what he wants.


What do I mean by that? What I'm saying, is that, in a lot of situations.

Let's say the man meets you and his desire is just to have sex and have fun.


He starts to realize you have standards, you have morals you.

You have guidelines that don't allow him to easily achieve his goal.

In that situation.

He has no desire to stick around.

For, what? Like.

It seems like it's going to be too much work, too difficult.

He rather find an easier route.

So, many times that guy pulling away it's a blessing.

It's a blessing.

It may feel hurtful at that time, but don't internalize it.

Because at the end of the day, he's walking away, because he was never that serious.


You want to find that out as early as possible.

The last thing.

You, that you want is for him to drag things along and have you thinking he is going somewhere when he was never really serious about you from the beginning.


That's number one.

He can't easily get what he wants.


Second reason why men pull away or why men pull away when they start to get close is because he has some personal issues.

He's going.


Now, I mention this because I've seen a lot of situations where men don't always handle big events or difficult situations that come upon them in their life and they shut down a lot.


You may say, well, listen.

If he's really serious about the woman.

If he loves her, why shut down? He should open up to her.

The problem? Is he may not be at that place with you yet that he feels comfortable opening up on that level and showing that level of vulnerability.

Also,? A lot of men have not been shown how to deal with their emotions in a healthy way.

So, the easiest route or the route that they're more conditioned to or they're, they're, they feel more comfortable with.

Is the shutting down, walking away, ghosting you, and you don't know, what's going on.

And, then the guy will pop up a week later, two weeks later, a month later, and was like, yeah, I was going through some things.

I didn't know how to handle it.

Now, I'm.

In no way saying you have to accept that behavior.

I do think that the first time someone does that, have a discussion, and lay out, listen.

If we're going to actually try to get to know each other, you can't do that.


You can't just shut down, I get you're going through something, but you got to talk to me and, let me know: what's: up.

We have to communicate.

We got to be clear, but I want you to understand.

This is what I'm saying to you that yes, men going through personal issues, does cause men to pull away, all right.


A third reason why men pull away is that he met someone else.

That's the reality of the situation.

There's a lot of times where the guy is dating somebody.

He meets someone else that he may have more interest in and he moves on to that.

Individual., And, again, I know that's hurtful, that sucks.


We have to start looking at people's exits as an opening to something better.


That's an opportunity for you to now focus more on yourself, whether that's an opportunity for you to now meet the person who's actually best for you, that you can connect with.

Whatever it is.

It is an opportunity.

It is not a time to dwell in hurt and disappointment and question yourself, because that man meeting someone else and choosing someone else to give his attention to is not an indictment on your lack of worth or your lack of quality.

It may just mean he connects more with that girl than he does with you.

The same way.

You probably connect better with another guy than you did with him.

You may not realize that right now, but you do.

So, embrace the blessing in disguise that it is and understand that, yes, that does happen.

Now, I.

Don't want you to jump to that conclusion.

The minute you stop hearing from a guy.


He must have met someone else.

There's, so many different, reasons.

We got a couple more to discuss, but meeting.

Someone else is one of the reasons why that happens, why men pull away or why men pull away after they get close.

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Let's get to reason, number four.

And this one might hit you a little different.

But the reason.

The number four reason why men pull away is because you're better than what he expected.


What do I mean by that? This kind of goes back to number one, and or.

There's some correlation.


I've seen a lot of situations where a man will meet a woman and he's going into it very casual.

And he's thinking, okay, I'm going to have my fun, hang out with her, it's going to be all good.

And then, the woman ends up being amazing.

And so, now.

You may think well, if she's amazing.

Why? Wouldn't he latch on to that? Why? Wouldn't he embrace that? Well, because he knows he's not ready.

He wasn't coming into it thinking.

This was going to be a serious relationship.

He thought he was going to casually date.

You and then he saw, oh, my goodness.

Like, she's, she's, that other level that I'm looking for.

She's, something that I need to respect.

And, believe it or not.

When a man has high respect for you, he does not want to put you through the nonsense that he puts other women through, all right.

And, that's not to make anyone feel bad, who is being put through the nonsense, but it does happen like that.

I’ve, seen men who would say she's too good of a girl, like, I don't want to mess her up.

I, don't want to cause no problems.

I'm going to leave her alone.

And yes.

He may try to come back later and make things happen when he feels like he's truly ready.

But I've seen men run from that great woman because they were not prepared for her to be that great.

They did not know.

This is what it's going to be waiting for him.

You know, when he started to talk to you.

So, understand that yes.

This can cause men to pull away in that moment, especially as they get closer to you.


You know, that man will pull away after getting close, because again, he's feeling way more vulnerable now, because he really likes you, he's really into you.


Unless he's truly ready to embark on being in a serious, committed relationship, it could cause him to pull away.

And it's easier to pull away than it is to kind of stay in that Grey area of dating you, but not fully committing to you.


Then it's like.

It's almost torture at that point.


He can't be with you the way that he wants to, and give you what he knows you deserve, then it's easier for him to say.

You know what, I'm, just going to walk away, not going to deal with this right.


And try to make this work later.

If that even comes about.

So, the, I'm sorry, excuse me., The last reason, I, apologize.


The last reason that men walk away and to be honest with you.

This might be the most..

I, don't know if it's the most common reason, but it's more common than women realize and it's a real issue that is getting overlooked and the vast majority of people do not tell women this one main point.

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But with that said.

Let's get to the last big reason why men pull away after getting close.


That's because you're not reciprocating.


What do I mean? I mean that a lot of women go into dating situations with walls up.

And, going into this, going into it with this mentality of he has to prove himself to me.

He has to show me he's worthy of me.

Opening up to him.

And I, understand that approach.

I understand that you've been burned before, and that you want to make sure it's safe before you get to that level.


What happens a lot of times is,? If you haven't truly healed, then it's, it's very difficult for him to really get you to a place where you feel like you can let that wall down.

So, now, you continue to hold back.

He continues to pour in, pour in, pour in, and it gets to a point where he gets tired, and he's done.


He figures either you're not interested, as interested in him as he is in you, you're, not serious., Whatever, it is.

He can't deal with it.

No more.

So, to put it in even more proper perspective.

Have you ever had an experience where, for the first month or two months, the man is going hard, he's doing everything right, he is Mr.


And then, out of nowhere it just stops.

It's just done.

Ask yourself, in that time was I really giving to him as much as he was giving to me? If you weren't.

That can be a huge reason.


Again, understand that I know a lot of women.

Don't realize that men are getting played out here and men have been hurt.

So, I need to remind you.

That is the case.

A lot of men have given, given, given, and ended up getting played, taken advantage, of, and hurt.


If he sees that he's giving to you and you're, not giving back.

And when I say giving back, I'm not talking about sleeping with him.

I'm, not talking about acting like his girlfriend, but showing genuine desire.

The way that he needs to see your desire, genuine interest, willing to put forth a mutual effort in building that relationship, then yeah, he'll, walk, away., And, and back to like, I think it was number three on the list.


He meets someone else and she shows a little bit more interest.

She shows a little bit more effort.

He goes to that easily.

So, be mindful and be honest with yourself about, am I, making a mutual effort? Because, it's not about him chasing you or you chasing him.

It's about two people, putting a mutual effort in to build a great relationship.


That's the five reasons why men pull away.

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Why do men pull away when you get closer? ›

Many men feel that by being emotionally vulnerable they are being less of a man and this may be engraved deep into their psyche. Their insecurities are triggered and they fear rejection. So them pulling away could be their defence mechanism acting up.

What is the number one reason men pull away? ›

He might be scared of the fact that he will disappoint you or doubtful if he is ready to commit. Being afraid of feelings and love is the number one reason men pull away.

Do guys pull away when they really like you? ›

Whether a man is in love with you or not – there will likely come a time when you feel him pulling away. Pulling away is simply what masculine men have to do sometimes. (And in their mind, they usually do not even realize they're pulling away!)

Why do guys show so much interest and then pull away? ›

Why do guys act interested then pull away? The biggest reason for men to pull away is the fear of their own emotions. The thought of a relationship is appealing to them but the effort scares them.

Why do guys distance themselves from a girl they like? ›

Guys mainly act distant when they are uncertain of their feelings or yours. Please don't give up when you notice a sudden change in his demeanor. Instead, make him trust you more by assuring him of your love. Let him know you value the relationship and hope you build it together.

Should I leave him alone when he pulls away? ›

Leave him alone when he pulls away

If you believe that your guy is pulling away, give him that space to deal with his emotions. Either he will come back to you with clarity about his feelings or you will be rid of someone who didn't deserve you.

How do you respond when a guy pulls away? ›

Things You Should Know
  1. Stay calm and avoid jumping to conclusions, even if you're upset that he's pulling away. Ask him what's going on respectfully and with an open mind.
  2. Give him space. ...
  3. Be positive around him and show him affection according to his love language.

What men want 7 ways to pull him closer? ›


When a guy acts interested then backs off? ›

He may have detected that you're interested in more than just hooking up, and he's trying to back away slowly. His sudden lack of interest could signal he wants to end things, or that he wants to keep you at a distance. Either way, if he's not interested in more than sex, and you are, it's probably not a good match.

Can guys just turn their feelings off? ›

It's no wonder men often have difficulty identifying what they are feeling, other than anger. They can become defensive and pull away when emotion is being expressed to them unless they know how to speak the language of emotion. Emotional withdrawal has become their go-to response.

How do you know if he has no feelings for you? ›

The guy will enjoy talking to you about his day and ask about yours. He might not always reach out first, but sometimes, he will. If he never calls or texts you first and only responds when you try to initiate a conversation, it is a clear sign he is not interested in you.

How do you know if he secretly still likes you? ›

Here are 10 common signs that someone likes you but is hiding it.
  • They may act a bit awkward around you. ...
  • They compliment you often. ...
  • They get a little jealous. ...
  • They ask questions. ...
  • They remember the details. ...
  • They want to spend time with you. ...
  • They listen. ...
  • They lean in when you talk.
Mar 24, 2023

Why would a guy ghost you if he likes you? ›

Some guys ghost because they don't know how to cut off communication more directly. They may not be ready for a serious commitment, but want to avoid confrontation or protect you from being hurt. Sometimes, guys ghost because something happens unexpectedly in their personal life.

Why do guys give mixed signals? ›

Men tend to give you mixed signals when they are either not interested and planning to keep you as backup, are confused about what they want or even playing around. This behaviour can be very frustrating and it gets difficult to deal with that hot and cold attitude. So, to deal with such annoying mixed signals.

What to do when he goes cold? ›

Tips to bear in mind when dating a hot and cold guy
  1. Don't come across as desperate. Resist the temptation to chase him, act unaffected when he acts cold. ...
  2. Give space – It's sometimes the best way to communicate. ...
  3. Flip the game of the hot and cold guy. ...
  4. Understand that you are not the problem. ...
  5. Confront, back off, and move on.
Jul 29, 2021

Did he lose interest or am I overthinking? ›

He's less responsive to your texts and phone calls.

Signs a guy is losing interest through text include taking a long time to respond, being unavailable to chat, and a lack of enthusiasm when you do talk. Do you notice that he has time to post on social media but isn't getting back to you?

How do you make him miss you when he pulls away? ›

The best way to make a guy miss you is to pull away. Refrain from texting or calling him for the smallest things. If you reach out to him constantly, he does not have any chance to miss you. Instead, give your special person a reason and some time to miss you.

How do I stop him pulling away? ›

What to do when he pulls away? How to react and deal with the issues
  1. Resist the temptation to ask him what went wrong. ...
  2. Keep your emotions in check and your interactions positive. ...
  3. Be patient. ...
  4. Ask him what his insecurities are. ...
  5. Focus on yourself. ...
  6. Don't respond with fear or become paranoid. ...
  7. Be ready to face the outcome.
May 26, 2021

How do you turn the tables and make him chase you? ›

Turning the Tables: Get a Guy to Chase You in 6 Simple Steps
  1. Don't Try to Win Him Over.
  2. Be Mysterious.
  3. Hold Off From Calling or Texting Him.
  4. Flirt with Him.
  5. Don't Give Him the Impression He is The Only Guy in the Picture.
Jun 23, 2020

What to text him when he is away? ›

Choose one or more of the following to tell your man how much you miss him!
  • I wish you were here right now.
  • I miss you like a fat kid on a diet misses cake.
  • Your arms around me felt like home. ...
  • You don't even have the slightest idea how much I miss you.
  • One of your hugs would be nice right now.

What to text him when he goes silent? ›

Phrases to Break the Silence
  • Hey, we haven't really been talking lately. I have been feeling X and just haven't known how to bring it up.
  • Can we check in? I know I've gone radio silent and shut down. ...
  • I'm not sure what's going here but I feel like we haven't really spoken in X amount of time. ...
  • I miss you.
Jun 27, 2017

What to do when he is shutting you out? ›

What to do when someone you love shuts down
  1. take a break from, or “table” the conversation.
  2. write down your thoughts and feelings to revisit later.
  3. stay calm.
  4. don't retaliate.
  5. don't throw an adult temper tantrum.
  6. do something self-soothing.
  7. consider professional intervention.
Sep 2, 2021

What brings a man closer to a woman? ›

Many men said that a simple touch, remembering their favorite drink, or even just a "miss you" text are some small things that made them feel special. Surprisingly it doesn't take a lot to make someone feel worthy.

How do you make any man crave you? ›

How to make him want you more: 8 tips to make him crave for you!
  1. Call him by cute names often:
  2. Keep him guessing:
  3. Touch him unexpectedly:
  4. Small changes do make a big difference:
  5. Compliment him often:
  6. Take him down the memory lane:
  7. Give him ample space:
  8. Smell good at all times:
Dec 13, 2016

Does distance bring him closer? ›

If you want less distance and pull them toward you, they will want more distance to carry the relationship back toward their comfort level. But if you distance yourself more than they ideally would like, chances are they then will start to pull to bring you closer—again toward the level of involvement they want.

Why do guys go hot and cold? ›

When a guy runs hot and cold on you, it's highly likely that he's insecure. He is blowing hot when he's feeling strong emotions about you. After the first few months of dating, he begins to panic. He gets anxious that you don't like him as much as he does.

Why do guys go quiet for a few days? ›

Many guys hate failing and feeling inadequate. They often don't have the speed of words to compete with their partner in a conflict. Men's emotional processing capacity is often much slower than their partner. Whilst being silent is a sign of a man's need to process it is also a way to avoid the feelings of defeat.

What turns a man off in a relationship? ›

A Lack of Confidence

Being shy or not having an opinion of what you do is cute, sometimes. Constantly saying you don't care, when you probably do or even if you really don't, will leave a guy wondering if he's doing things the right way. Let your voice be heard and express yourself.

Can a guy lose feelings for a girl? ›

Well, it is possible in any relationship. There are many reasons for this in a bonding. When men start to lose interest in their women, some may look for a new relationship and others try to adjust with their existing partner.

Can guys ignore their feelings? ›

Alexithymia is defined as "lacking words for emotions," and it's more common among men than women. Suppressing your feelings can lead to medical problems or relationship difficulties. Using certain techniques, it's possible to improve your ability to understand your own emotions, as well as those of others.

How long does it take a guy to realize he has feelings for you? ›

But it may take longer before a person actually considers telling their partner they love them. According to a large 2022 study, men tend to say “I love you” more quickly than women. It takes men an average of 108 days (about 4 months) to confess love and women an average of around 123 days (about 4 months).

How many days does it take for a man to catch feelings? ›

The average time for men to fall in love is 88 days, while those same feelings of true love take women 134 days. Another dating site, Elite Singles, did a poll in 2017 and found that 61 per cent of women believe in love at first sight, while 72 per cent of men do. These surveys focused on heterosexual relationships.

How to accept he doesn t want you? ›

  1. Listen to music that lets you feel your feelings.
  2. Exercise. It helps to clear your mind and you will be healthier.
  3. Write in a diary if you have one.
  4. Write a letter to him if you want. ...
  5. Go on some long walks by yourself. ...
  6. Know when to stop. ...
  7. Consult a therapist if you can't get back into your normal life.

How do I make him confess his feelings? ›

Be straightforward and come to the point and make him realise that he can be honest with you and express his feelings for you without being judged or critiqued. There are many body language signs like his gaze, his way of talking to you and more such things that can help you know how he feels for you.

What body language shows a man attracted to you? ›

Prolonged eye contact, raised eyebrows, and dilated pupils are all evidence of attraction. A person might lick or bite their lips or look at your lips if they're attracted to you as well. Open body language and facial expressions are also signs a guy or girl is feeling attraction towards you.

How do you tell if he likes me but is scared? ›

15 Signs A Guy Is Scared Of His Feelings For You
  • His behavior changes for no apparent reason. ...
  • You catch him staring at you. ...
  • You keep running into each other. ...
  • He acts differently when you're around. ...
  • He wants to be your hero. ...
  • He often jokes that he wants to date you. ...
  • He's nervous when you're around.
Jun 15, 2023

How do you tell if a guy wants you to leave him alone? ›

14 Signs He Wants You to Leave Him Alone (with tips)
  1. A deep sense of disconnection. ...
  2. You're always initiating conversations. ...
  3. He tells you directly. ...
  4. He ignores texts/calls from you. ...
  5. Lack of vulnerability (from his end) ...
  6. Lack of sexual intimacy. ...
  7. He doesn't desire to be physically around you. ...
  8. You're excluded from his activities.
May 17, 2022

How many days is ghosting? ›

While every relationship is different, three days is enough time to consider yourself ghosted. Sure, everyone has emergencies or can come up with a valid excuse for not responding, but letting things linger for three days or longer is enough to categorise it as a ghosted situation.

Why do men slow fade? ›

Another corroborated this, adding that "guys do this so they don't have to deal with awkward situations or conversations. It stems from either laziness or fear, depending on the guy." He was quick to clarify that he's never done it, because he's always just been honest about what he wants.

How long is normal for a man to pull away? ›

Medium got to the conclusion that “There is no definite time limit, but if a guy likes you, he will usually pull away for no longer than a few days or a week at most”.

Why do most men leave? ›

Sometimes men run away when they fall in love, looking to rekindle the spark of singleness. Why men leave the women they love could be any number of reasons. Toxic relationships, being used, feeling emotionally spent, or meeting someone new could also contribute to what makes a man leave his wife.

What makes a man push away? ›

Similar to a guy who is scared of commitment, he might feel that it's getting a little too intense for his liking. Sometimes, guys act distant even when they like you. Sure, he loves you, but he also might be feeling that the emotions between you and the way you spend so much time together are a little too much.

How long does it take for a man to pull away? ›

Usually, guys pull away for relatively short periods. However, generally, the pull-away phase might last from a few days to years. In some cases, he might choose to not return at all. A general rule when it comes to men that pull away is that the deeper the connection the shorter the pull-away stage is likely to last.

How do you tell if he's losing interest or just comfortable? ›

5 signs that he is losing interest or are you overthinking it?
  1. Phone calls and texts have steadily decreased. ...
  2. Quality time together has started to dwindle. ...
  3. Intimacy has become scarce. ...
  4. Things are becoming increasingly one-sided. ...
  5. He dodges questions about your status or where it is going.

What happens when you stop chasing him? ›

You get more you-time

Getting more time for yourself is what happens when you stop chasing a man. With him no longer at the center of your focus, you can now focus on building yourself and your career or interests. So, you stop chasing him and divert your energy into something more productive.

How long will a man wait for a woman he loves? ›

According to a large 2022 study, men tend to say “I love you” more quickly than women. It takes men an average of 108 days (about 4 months) to confess love and women an average of around 123 days (about 4 months).

Does absence make a man want you more? ›

It is not uncommon for guys to fall in love when they miss a woman because men fall in love when you're absent and not when you're present.

Why would a man push away a woman he loves? ›

Some people can't help but push their partners away because of a fear of intimacy. Sometimes this is because they had a tough upbringing, and find it difficult to connect with people. Others may have been through trauma later on, such as an abusive relationship.

How do you attract a man who is pulling away? ›

What to do when he pulls away
  1. Reflect on the situation. ...
  2. If you're not exclusive, continue dating. ...
  3. Give him some time and space. ...
  4. Focus your energy elsewhere. ...
  5. Let him come to you when he's ready. ...
  6. Offer your support. ...
  7. Communicate your needs. ...
  8. Reignite that flame and move forward together.

What to do when a guy is unsure of his feelings for you? ›

What to do when a guy is confused about his feelings?
  1. Openly talk to him. It's a good idea to let the guy know about your feelings. ...
  2. Give him time and space. Try not to make him feel like he has to decide right away. ...
  3. Reassure him. Let him know that you understand that he isn't ready yet.
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Do men come back after they pull away? ›

The fact is, men do pull away and come back in relationships. It's a naturally occurring cycle and happens for important reasons. Men and women are different and as such, the way they deal with emotions and stress can be different.

Why do guys distance themselves after intimacy? ›

One of the possible answers to why do guys distance themselves after intimacy is because they are in their refractory period. It is difficult for men to immediately go for subsequent rounds after they ejaculate. They need more time to achieve the same excitement level so that they can adequately satisfy you in bed.

What makes a high value woman? ›

The term “high-value woman” is often used to describe women who lean into their individual capacity, see themselves as valuable, and have safe ideas of healthy relationships. A woman identifying with this term may know what she wants and who she is and feels ambitious in achieving her goals.

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