Is Your Taurus Man Pulling Away? Here's What To Do (2024)

You’re just starting to feel close and connected when your Taurus man suddenly pulls away and becomes either physically or emotionally unavailable. Is your Taurus man pulling away, and you don’t know what to do?

These time-tested tips based on relationship astrology will help you understand what scares a Taurus man away and what to do when a Taurus man pulls away. This is going to give you the skills to create a healthy relationship with your Taurus.

But the first thing I want you to know is that your Taurus man may actually not be over you but just temporarily focused on solving another problem that has nothing to do with your relationship!

A Taurus man has a one-track mind—just like a bull looking at that red flag—and they don’t multitask well. The very first thing you need to do is stop panicking and ask him what is going on in his life without hurling accusations or being negative.

You don’t want to assume your Taurus man has lost interest in you. It’s part of his personality to go through hot and cold spells due to his sensitive and caring nature. Let me explain.

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1 Why Is A Taurus Man Pulling Away? What Scares Him Away?

2 4 More Reasons Why Does A Taurus Man Pull Away

3 What To Do When A Taurus Man Pulls Away

4 When A Taurus Man Pulls Away — Don’t Make These 5 Mistakes

5 When A Taurus Man Stops Talking — Does That Mean He Is Losing Interest?

6 Distancing Yourself From A Taurus Man — When To Walk Away From A Taurus Man?

7 FAQ On Taurus Man Pulling Away

7.1 Is My Taurus Man Testing Me By Pulling Away?

7.2 Will A Taurus Man Come Back After No Contact?

7.3 How To Get A Taurus Man To Chase You Again?

8 Does Your Taurus Man Disappear After Intimacy?

Why Is A Taurus Man Pulling Away? What Scares Him Away?

When a Taurus man pulls away, this could happen for several reasons. One of the reasons would be your constant neediness and tendency to ask him for validation. This is what a Taurus man cannot stand.

At times, he is prone to insecurity and tends to pull away. Speaking in riddles is also going to pull him away. Is your Taurus man overwhelmed, and this has led him to blow cold and pull away? Totally expected.

Also, your Taurus man may be experiencing trust issues in the relationship. A Taurus man loves security and stability, and if he senses that he cannot trust you or that he cannot anticipate your next move, most likely he will withdraw because he doesn’t like uncharted territories.

Good communication can be crucial in saving difficult relationships, and bad communication can destroy good relationships. Communication is the biggest indicator of whether a relationship can stand the test of time.

If a Taurus experiences conflicts or disagreements with you, he will most definitely seek solitude to reflect on the whole situation. Here’s more on how to communicate with a Taurus man effectively <<

If you’re in a situation where your Taurus man says he doesn’t think it’s going to work and you’re feeling lost and unsure of what to do, I strongly recommend my 30-day Taurus Man Love Challenge. This program is designed to give you all the tools you need to bring back the passion and connection in your relationship. Start your journey today!

4 More Reasons Why Does A Taurus Man Pull Away

1. Your Irresponsibility Is A Deal-Breaker

Taurus men need respect and trust in a relationship—otherwise, there’s no foundation for him.

If your Taurus man pulls away, you must show that you’re responsible enough to trust and then responsible enough to respect. This is especially true when it comes to matters of love and money.

If you’re constantly getting fired, emptying your bank account, losing your wallet, or behaving carelessly with your possessions, he won’t be able to relate. Even worse—act irresponsibly with his heart, his hopes, and his sensitive spots, and you’re finished.

A bull can smell instability, and it turns them pale. He’s always trying to walk the line and can grow resentful of those who can’t or won’t.

2. Emotional Meltdowns Pull Your Taurus Man Away

The slow and deliberate processing of emotions is the Taurus way, and that includes both actions and reactions. They’re slow to anger, slow to love, and slow to digest. If a tornado blows through their lives, they’ll either survive because they were tied to something steady or die because they thought quickly enough to run.

If there’s one thing a Taurus doesn’t understand, it’s a meltdown. The chaos of emotions and the suddenness of impact are totally bewildering to the bull.

It’s likely that a Taurus man won’t understand what cocktail of triggers upset you, and worse, he won’t see why you reacted so strongly. The lightning-strike timeline of many meltdowns is also nerve-shredding to the average bull, who cherishes safety and predictability.

Some people can take a little drama in stride, mostly because they understand the hows and whys. Not Taurus. They’re some of the most supportive and emotionally generous creatures out there, though, and they want to be your rock when something’s going down.

Read also: When A Taurus Man Decides You’re The One (Signs He Is Ready To Commit)

3. Your Shabbiness Is Not Helpful

In truth, Taurus loves beauty. A lot. And part of their initial attraction to you was likely physical, even though you’re definitely funny, sweet, and great to be with, too.

And it’s not necessarily the facade of beauty that Taurus is drawn to. Makeup, good hair, and nice clothes are a great bonus, but if it isn’t you, they’ll know.

Natural beauty is at the top of the list for a Taurus man, and that means beauty you can see both inside and out—a fresh-faced kind of beauty homegrown from good health, sunshine, and, sometimes, good genes.

It may seem contradictory, then, to say that makeup and all that doesn’t matter in the face of natural, inner or outer beauty. Because it actually does.

Let me explain—your accessories and embellishments should only enhance what you already have, not hide imperfections or create illusions.

4. Speaking Vague Pushes Your Taurus Man Away

Taurus loves absolutes; that’s what they understand. They love the simplest, purest, most classic, and most exquisite versions of everything because they believe in simple, classic, and exquisite purity, of course!

Coca-Cola, blue jeans, rock n’ roll, Chuck Taylors, little black dresses, Disneyland, chocolate chip cookies, steak dinners, hugs, and red roses—your Taurus guy totally gets the appeal. This is a taste issue, a value issue, and a concreteness issue. He loves to choose sides, to define, construct, and hold.

His opinions are often fixed, and so is his morality. He often knows exactly what is “right,” what is “wrong,” what’s “cool,” and what isn’t. He’ll say that what’s time-tested is what’s best, solely because it’s time-tested. Taurus Man pulls away simply if you undermine his opinions.

So be prepared to argue with your Taurus sometimes, but adopt an agree-to-disagree mantra!

If you’re someone who changes with the weather, who’s allergic to “yes” and in bed with “maybe,” a kook whose resolve is as porous as a sea sponge… Well, how did you find yourself interested in a Taurus?

A dreamy, soupy personality is confusing to the male bull. He might initially find himself amused and intrigued, but he will find little to hold onto.

If you can make a list of your favorite things (keep it simple), pick a restaurant (nothing too adventurous), and show up on time at least three times in a row (wow!), you’re on your way to charming your Taurus sweetie.

What To Do When A Taurus Man Pulls Away

If you feel like you’re lacking structure, try to plant a few roots. Tidy up and upgrade your home, perhaps with some comfy, stylish new furniture. You could open a savings account, buy a few Tile trackers for your keys, or start a side hustle with one of your secret skills.

Someone with her feet on the ground and her eye on the prize—now that’s something that really turns a bull’s head.

Don’t sound needy or clingy; don’t display a variety of emotions all at once. Dial back the tears, swallow your anger, and count to 10 before choosing your words. Then ask for his help. You’ll be curled up in his arms in no time.

Always take care of yourself and your appearance. To show the extreme end of the spectrum as an example: if you stop taking care of yourself, your diet worsens, you skimp on sleep, and you start living in stained old T-shirts, your Taurus man will notice.

Take him somewhere nice. If you can make a list of your favorite things (keep it simple), pick a restaurant (nothing too adventurous), and show up on time at least three times in a row (wow!), you’re on your way to charming your Taurus sweetie.

If you’re frisky, free, and flirty on a regular basis, Taurus is not the best match. But if your wild spirit is finally ready for a safe harbor, Taurus would be happy to have you—as long as you stay true.

Learn more about what a Taurus man likes and dislikes in a woman here <<

When A Taurus Man Pulls Away — Don’t Make These 5 Mistakes

1. Blaming Him For Your Problems

Ladies, don’t tell your Taurus man that it is his fault that you spent all night awake worrying about your relationship. Don’t blame him for your feelings or mood.

Remember how I said you might be jumping to conclusions about why he has been distant? If there is something bothering him, be patient and listen to why he may be unsure about things.

Show your Taurus man respect—he is very big on respectful communication.

2. Trying To Force Him To Come Back

If you are feeling lonely, it’s OK to suggest a plan to get together, but don’t demand that he drop everything to come and make you feel better.

First, address your assumptions, and then find a time to calmly discuss how he is feeling about the two of you or what else is going on in his life.

3. Texting And Calling Him Incessantly

If he is in the middle of a project, he may not be able to answer you right away. If you bombard him with messages, it might give him the impression that you’re not stable.

A Taurus man craves level-headedness, so just allow him time to respond without harassing him. And when you do communicate, keep it calm, collected, and positive without making him feel pressured to call you.

Check here for the most common reasons a Taurus man avoids your texts <<

4. Trying To Make Him Jealous

It’s easy to fall into the trap of trying to get your Taurus man’s attention with jealousy. You might think that if you go out with someone else, it will make him realize what he could lose.

This is never a good idea because your Taurus man needs to be able to trust you. You do not want to push that button, my friend.

5. Talking About Him Online

Avoid posting about your emotions online—if you do, it may haunt you when things turn around and he remembers feeling disrespected. Taurus is big on feeling valued, and if he has been spoken about in a negative manner, he won’t soon forget it.

His self-esteem is fragile, so don’t say or post something you might regret later, even if you’re upset now.

When A Taurus Man Stops Talking — Does That Mean He Is Losing Interest?

Maybe your Taurus man isn’t a typical bull. Maybe you’re sitting there scratching your head, pretty positive he is actually pulling away.

We are influenced by all aspects of our birth charts, and your Taurus may have other traits that strongly influence his personality apart from his sun sign. Take a look at his chart or get some advice on how to interpret it if you suspect this is the case.

For example, if he rushed into your relationship and has never been very reliable, he probably has other elements affecting his chart that will help you understand him.

The more you understand his unique astrological blueprint, the easier it will be to get along with your Taurus man.

If you would like to look out forthe warning signs that a Taurus man is losing interest in you, check out my recent blog post.

Distancing Yourself From A Taurus Man — When To Walk Away From A Taurus Man?

If you’re someone who likes your man to check in with you once a day, let him know. He may not know how to best support you, and you can’t expect him to act as someone else did in the past. Make it clear what will help you feel safe and secure in the relationship, and ask what you can do to make him feel the same way.

If he doesn’t correspond well with you and you have a total mismatch of expectations, this would be a sign that you should walk away from your Taurus man.

A Taurus is not cut out for this sort of life, and once real feelings are off the table, he’ll become confused, jealous, resentful, and impossible to put up with.

If you don’t feel appreciated, if you constantly chase his love, affection, and attention, sometimes the real closure to this story is realizing you deserve better.

FAQ On Taurus Man Pulling Away

Are you struggling to figure out what to do about your Taurus man pulling away? Well, luckily for you I have compiled questions that might come up in your relationship.

Hopefully, this can help you navigate your relationship with your Taurus man.

Is My Taurus Man Testing Me By Pulling Away?

The Taurus man will test a woman through observation. This means he needs to be present in the relationship. He will test your compatibility, commitment, and trustworthiness, and he cannot do that from a distance.

Your Taurus man is pulling away because his feelings run deep while he is trying to figure you out. He wants to protect himself through the process of pulling away. This is nothing unusual; they just tend to act this way every now and then.

Will A Taurus Man Come Back After No Contact?

Your Taurus man will come back, but only if he hasn’t lost his feelings and trust.

He will not come back if he breaks up with you and then pulls away. This means there was a reason that made him act that way, but if he pulls away without explanation, most likely he will be back as soon as he figures out what made him pull away in the first place.

Take a step back, breathe, and don’t assume that your Taurus man has any idea that you’re all worked up and worried! He truly might just be digging into a new project, as he tends to do.

He can be a bit absent-minded that way. If you speak openly and calmly, he will let you know where he stands, but if you’re emotional and not direct, he won’t understand why.

Here’s more on how to get a Taurus man back and never lose him again <<

How To Get A Taurus Man To Chase You Again?

Taurus men take their time to observe a prospective partner, and they examine all the evidence you present to them as they weigh up the potential of a romance to become a stable relationship.

He may seem to lack interest, but he is probably watching you quite closely for any signs of red flags that will set him off or break his heart. If you show signs of being interested, available, or faithful at this time, he will start to chase you again.

Does Your Taurus Man Disappear After Intimacy?

Does your Taurus man pull away or get quiet when you’ve just had a deep emotional connection? Or does he seem todisappearjust when you thought he was getting closer?

Have you felt confused by hishot and coldbehavior?

If so, then he might have an avoidant attachment style.He could beDismissive Avoidantandcompletely terrifiedof commitment…Or he could beFearful Avoidantand REALLYwantcommitment…But getscaredwhen he feels himself getting closer to you.

If he has either one of these attachment styles, you’re going to end up feelingextremely confusedat times.

Andbothare caused by childhood trauma.

When you can see thescared little boy inside himthat had to shut down his feelings if he’s dismissive avoidant…Or have a parentnotprovide his needs consistently if he’s fearful avoidant…

It can make it easier to haveempathy and compassionfor his confusing and frustrating behavior.

But that won’t fix it.

And while advice on attachment stylescanbe helpful…What you really need to stop this frustrating hot and cold cycle is tounderstand him better.

Thankfully,there is asimple system to TRULY understand how he ticks based on his astrology <<

It willstop your Taurus man from pulling backwhen you begin feeling closer.And it will accomplishin only 30 days.

So no morecrying yourself to sleep when your Taurus pulls back… No more feeling incredibly confused.And no more wonderingwhat in the heckis going on with him…

Even ifhe has an avoidant attachment style.

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xoxo,

Anna

Is Your Taurus Man Pulling Away? Here's What To Do (2024)

FAQs

How to react when a Taurus man pulls away? ›

In case your Taurus man is going through a rough time, it's important to show your support. Reach out and let him know you're there if he needs you. No matter what. He'll likely tell you how much he appreciates this.

Is My Taurus man done with me? ›

1 He's no longer touchy-feely. 2 He isn't making an effort anymore. 3 He isn't responding to your romantic gestures.

What to do when Taurus man disappears? ›

If your Taurus man has disappeared, it's essential to focus on strategies that can entice him to return. Communication is key in any relationship, and expressing your emotions honestly could spark Taurus man's interest. Building excitement and intimacy in the relationship may strengthen his attraction towards you.

What to do when a Taurus man goes cold? ›

My advice is to have patience with him. Give him the time to think. With a Taurus man, you will need all the patience of this world, but we must agree that it is definitely easier to wait for a man to make up his mind, than to date someone who never knows what he wants. Sometimes, we can ask too much of people.

When a Taurus man leaves you? ›

Taurus may spend some time mourning the end of your relationship. It's not unusual for Taurus to take a long time to accept that your relationship is over. Remember, Taurus doesn't move through emotions quickly.

How do you get a Taurus man to chase you again? ›

How to Get a Taurus Man to Chase You
  1. Tell him that you like him.
  2. Pay him compliments.
  3. Be less available at first.
  4. Dress well when you see him.
  5. Text him sweet messages.
  6. Give him a thoughtful surprise.
  7. Flaunt your independence.
  8. Offer him support.

When a Taurus falls out of love? ›

A Taurus falls out of love very quickly. One mistake and they might lose interest in you. Taurus is the least likely to stick to one person for their life. Their love tends to fade away with time and if they sense a lost spark in a relationship, they might mistake it for a relationship that is almost over.

What turns a Taurus man off in a relationship? ›

In conclusion, a Taurus man dislikes dishonesty, inconsistency, and lack of stability in a woman. To attract a Taurus man, it's essential to be honest, reliable, and stable in both emotions and actions. A strong connection with a Taurus man can be formed by offering him the trust, consistency, and stability he desires.

How do you make a Taurus man regret ignoring you? ›

10 Ways to Make a Taurus Man Regret Losing You
  1. Focus On Your Growth.
  2. Cling Onto Him a Bit.
  3. Showcase Your Achievements.
  4. Dress To Impress.
  5. Discuss the Future with Him.
  6. Always Smell Good.
  7. Do Not Rush.
  8. Keep Supporting Him.
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Why he acts interested then disappears? ›

There are several answers to why do guys disappear when they like you. It could be that he is scared of letting someone in, unsure of his feelings towards you, or doesn't think you are good enough for him. If you are in such a situation, you must prioritize yourself above everything else.

Why is Taurus man suddenly ignoring me? ›

Things got hot and heavy too fast. Another reason Taurus men ignore you is when they're creating space between you. They'll do this if they suddenly realize that you were getting close quickly—too quickly for the slow, methodical Taurus. This happens more often than you might think.

Do Taurus men come back after no contact? ›

It may take two weeks of no contact to spark a Taurus man's interest again. Or it may take three months. The point is, you need to have patience if you want to reel a Taurus man back in. It may be so long before he contacts you that you think he's lost interest and must be seeing someone else.

How do I attract a Taurus man again? ›

How to Get a Taurus Man Back
  1. Give him some breathing room.
  2. Be honest with him.
  3. Keep your communication positive.
  4. Apologize if you made a mistake.
  5. Remind him of the good times.
  6. Appeal to his senses.
  7. Be a loyal friend.
  8. Focus on self-improvement in your life.

When a Taurus man stops talking to you? ›

What do you do when a Taurus man stops communicating? First, you let him have some space. If he's stopped communicating because he's angry or upset, you need to give him time and space to feel his feelings privately and regain his emotional stability.

When a Taurus man stops communicating? ›

What do you do when a Taurus man stops communicating? First, you let him have some space. If he's stopped communicating because he's angry or upset, you need to give him time and space to feel his feelings privately and regain his emotional stability.

Will a Taurus man come back after ghosting? ›

Will a Taurus man come back after ghosting? It depends on the reason he ghosted you, but it's possible a Taurus man will show up again like nothing happened. What is this? If he ghosted you because he lost interest, don't count on getting a courtesy call.

How do you make a Taurus regret ignoring you? ›

Here are 9 Ways how to make a Taurus man regret losing you before he escapes your grasp.
  1. Step Back. ...
  2. Work on Yourself. ...
  3. Pursue Your Passion. ...
  4. Be Active on Social Media. ...
  5. Continue his friendship. ...
  6. Work on Your Looks. ...
  7. Use social media to show he cherished you. ...
  8. Avoid Arguments.
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